Only the mind knows how to lead you into the heart of the one with whom you've found a mental affinity. Only the heart knows how to lead you into union with the soul of the one you love. And the soul is well aware.. Using the body as an instrument for sex alone, without love, is like listening to a symphony on stereophonic equipment but using only one speaker. Yes, it is time for a Messiah. A Wayshower, who will once again remind us of the basic lessons of love he taught before, so soon forgotten. For it makes no difference how far an individual or a nation has fallen into error; love will bring a renewed dedication to humanity.
Just as it makes no difference how far away someone has gone, for love will bring a return. As poet Emmet Fox noted, when it is projected with sufficient intensity, there is no distance that love cannot span, no illness - moral, mental, emotional or spiritual - that love cannot heal. No victory that love cannot win. Love is concentrated kinetic energy, the most awesome force in Nature. If only you could love deeply enough and sustain love long enough, you could become the source of your own miracles, as powerful as the ancient "gods and goddesses.
Loving enough is not easy. Loving enough doesn't mean loving only those who love you, who are kind and considerate and generous. Loving enough means also loving those who "say all manner of evil against you," who hate you and actively demonstrate that hatred, who seemingly lack all compassion and sensitivity. Anyone can return the love of those who love him - or her. There's little glory or power in that kind of love.
We are incarnated in these flesh bodies on Earth to learn love's deeper, more difficult lesson of loving the unlovable. In this accomplishment lies all the force and energy of true passion. More often than not, it's a painful effort, but the rewards, when it's mastered, are. Never mind unnecessary religious "canonization" - you, too, can become a "saint" - if you can love enough. In astrological terms, for a Lion and a Ram to love, for a Bull and a Goat to love - is nearly effortless.
But for a Ram to achieve harmony with a Crab - the Lion with the Scorpion - the Bull with the Water Bearer - these demonstrate a higher love.
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Love Signs will attempt to guide those who are fortunate enough to be united with their own compatible Sun Signs - and also show the way to tolerance and harmony for those whose present karmic destiny has decreed the soul-testing of being involved in relationships with people of conflicting Sun Signs. Even between two individuals whose Sun and Moon Signs harmonize, there are always some planets in their mutual nativities which clash, causing periodic friction and tension. To overcome this is to become tuned in to the pulsing frequency of the Higher Self, to begin the climb up the pathway to enlightenment.
Like a bottomless cup, the Holy Grail of those who love is never empty. In the Neverland mathematics of metaphysics, you see - the more miracles we give away to others, the more we have left for you and me. Who among us is not, at times, unlovable?
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And are not these the very times when we secretly yearn and need to be loved the most? I didn't hear them. For this most ancient alchemy secret of all is such a simple secret. And so, may the Force. May it prevent the predicted cataclysms of Nature, as well as the personal cataclysms of separation and divorce, through its prisms of Light.
The Twelve Mysteries of Love It's not the threat of illness or poverty that crushes the human spirit, but the fear that there is no one who truly cares - no one who really understands. We all reach desperately for love, no matter how healthy, wealthy or wise we may be, because the alternative is loneliness. And so love is sought both in heaven and in hell, by both saints and sinners, wherever the search may take them, and it takes them to some strange places in the Aquarian Age, through the maze of the sexual revolution.
Say, what is this hang-up about sex? The swingers and the idealists, the puritans and prostitutes, the frigid and the promiscuous, the male chauvinists and the Women's Liberators, whether they read Browning or Playboy, whether they watch Walt Disney movies or the latest erotica from Sweden, are all looking for the same thing.
No matter which road they travel on their pursuit of happiness, the inner need that drives them on is love. Not to give it.
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Not to receive it. But to share it. To love and be loved in return. Why is lasting, mutual love so elusive? To reach a complete and permanent union with the other half the Twin Soul man and woman must learn the lessons of the twelve Sun Signs. They must master the wisdom of these Twelve Mysteries of Love before they can achieve a final, perfect harmony between their mental, physical, emotional and spiritual natures. As we make the trip around the astrological or karmic wheel of life, through the rebirth under the influence of the various Sun Signs, sometimes progressing swiftly, sometimes lingering, many times returning to a certain Sun Sign experience to relearn old lessons - we evolve, each at his or her own speed.
We are forced, by our own Superconscious selves, to gradually perfect the positive qualities of all twelve signs and purge our natures of their negative qualities, so that we each may eventually become the refined gold of a totally evolved entity, worthy to join the other half - the Twin Self. In our longing for love - for our Twin Soul or Soul Mate - lies our latent metaphysical wisdom.
The secret of life itself. Esoteric truth. Every Sun Sign contains a strength that can be reversed into a weakness, and every Sun Sign contains a weakness that can be reversed into a strength, through the law of positive-negative polarity. What is Taurus stubbornness but Taurus patience turned upside down? What is Aries impulsiveness but the negative side of the Ram's positive Mars courage? Will Leo choose to use the great pride and nobility of the Leonine-Solar birthright for the positive purpose of protecting the helpless - or for the negative purpose of becoming an arrogant tyrant over the defenseless?
Will the sensible Cancerian caution be turned into Lunar fears and phobias? Will Pisces compassion and humility be reversed to the negative Neptune aspects of deception, introversion and escape? The choice of our Sun Sign polarities is always ours to take. And if we make the wrong choice we must relive that Sun Sign experience repeatedly, until we master the positive strength of that sign. When one's understanding of this second quality equals that of the first, he or she has then achieved mastery of a particular Sun Sign. The key is the number twelve.
There are 12 basic mineral salts used in homeopathy the most helpful of all branches of medicine. These 12 cell salts have a great power to influence a positive state of human health in each of their corresponding twelve Sun Signs, a fact comprehended only by homeopathic practitioners, not orthodox physicians except for a rare few of the latter. Minerals of the Earth conform to the number 12, as do both the metric and duodecimal systems. Diamonds, for instance, possess 12 sides or axes, along which they must be cut to achieve brilliance. James, 12 Greek Gods and so forth.
Long before the 12 sons of Jacob founded the 12 Tribes of Israel, the number thirteen 13 possessed a great mystical significance. The ancient Egyptian god-King, Osiris, was associated with 12 lesser kings, Osiris being their 13th member. Likewise did the Aztec god-king Quetzacoatl have 12 followers, he being the 13th of the group.
The 12 disciples represent the twelve Sun Sign stages of learning - and the "Master" symbolizes the number thirteen 13 - or the purity of the perfect blend of all the other twelve into One Complete Whole. As an example, each of the 12 apostles in the Christian Bible can be identified by esoteric astrologers with the Sun Sign quality embodied in that individual's particular attitude toward the teachings of Jesus.
This interwoven JudaeoChristian-Islamic religious truth is manifested in the mathematical harmony and beautiful synchronicity of the horoscopic wheel. Spiritual ignorance, or blindness, causes the superstitious fear of the dread number " Yet, the true meaning of this holy number is wisdom. If used for evil it can bring great destruction. But if used for good it can bring great regeneration. Used in its negative sense, it symbolizes the "Master," who is the blend of all twelve Sun Sign lessons, having become a "fallen angel," like Lucifer. Used in its positive sense, it means exactly the opposite - an "angel" who remains steadfast, to wield power and wisdom everlasting, tempered with justice and mercy - and above all else - love.
Numerology is an inescapable part of astrology. The subject is too vast and complicated to be fully covered in Love Signs and will be discussed in detail in a forthcoming book. Meanwhile, however, the briefest mention of planetary numbers is necessary for a full comprehension of the Twelve Mysteries of Love. And each planet likewise harmonizes with and is governed by a particular number. For example: The Moon ruler of Cancer vibrates to the number Two 2. Jupiter ruler of Sagittarius vibrates to the number Three 3. Uranus ruler of Aquarius vibrates to the number Four 4.
Mercury ruler of Gemini and temporary ruler of Virgo, until Virgo's true ruling planet, Vulcan, is discovered and identified: see Virgo-Virgo chapter vibrates to the number Five 5. Venus ruler of Libra and temporary ruler of Taurus, until Pan-Horus is discovered as the true ruler of Taurus: see Taurus-Taurus chapter vibrates to the number Six 6. Neptune ruler of Pisces vibrates to the number Seven 7.
Saturn ruler of Capricorn vibrates to the number Eight 8. Mars ruler of Aries vibrates to the number Nine 9. Each planet and Luminary also vibrates to what is termed a "higher octave" number, but we'll leave a full explanation of this for the aforementioned forthcoming book. You might have noticed the omission of a number that vibrates to Pluto ruler of Scorpio in this list.
Many astrologers and students of numerology will tell you that Pluto vibrates to the number Nine 9 , sharing this number with Mars ruler of Aries. This is not true. Pluto, like all the other planets, vibrates to its own personal "number" - distinctly and individually its own - sharing it with no other planet or Luminary. Since we've already covered the numbers One 1 through Nine 9 - and Ten 10 as Leo's Sun vibration, bringing us back to One 1 again, full circle - you may wonder how Pluto can possess its own number. You will see.
Six and Nine. The Feminine and Masculine vibratory numbers, or 9 and 6.
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Male and Female. Notice that when the Feminine number of Venus - Six 6 is turned upside down reversing its polarity , it becomes a Nine 9. Likewise, when the Masculine number of Mars - Nine 9 is turned upside down reversing its polarity , it becomes a Six 6. Man and Woman then - are inseparable. Each is an equal part of the other. The Masculine-Feminine Principles are totally interchangeable. Yet, one is always aiming in a direction reverse from the other. There are many more fascinating and revealing levels to the study of Six and Nine in numerology, but we're only touching the subject briefly here.
We'll discuss it in depth in a future book. Notice that both the Six 6 and the Nine 9 when the "tail" is removed become a circle. The circle is the secret of Twin Soul blending - the deepest mystery of the Sun Sign of Scorpio, and Scorpio's ruling planet, the awesome, The circle. The circle 0 represents Eternity, for it symbolizes the Serpent, eating its own tail. From the Masculine Positive head of the Serpent flows the male-positive energy force - into the Female Negative tail of the Serpent.
Simultaneously, from the Feminine Negative tail of the Serpent flows the female-negative energy force into the Serpent's Masculine Positive head. This is the secret of Scorpio, the Sun Sign of "sex" - and this is the energy behind the great Power of Scorpio's ruling planet, Pluto.
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The Circle. The Serpent, eating its own tail. The symbol of Eternity. For only when all polarities - male and female, youth and age, dark and light, night and day - thus feed energy simultaneously into one another, and blend their energies - rather than continue to oppose one another - can true power exist. Pluto's vibratory Zero also contains the secret mystery of Christianity's Holy Trinity.
The "Holy Ghost" Christ spirit is feminine energy. This Third Energy, composed of the Masculine and Feminine combined, flowing into each other, and not in opposition, creates many miracles: The Great Power of Divinity. The conception of a child. The conception of an idea adding the "1" for love, this becomes an ideal.
The energy that powers spacecraft from other solar systems. It is in no way an accident that Kekule, who made the monumental discovery of the benzine ring structure, which paved the way for the theoretical aspect of organic chemistry, said that he dreamed repeatedly of "a snake, eating its own tail" before the concept occurred to him. Therefore, all the mysterious Pluto-Scorpio "power" comes from a subconscious knowledge of this Zero principle that the perfect blend between Masculine and Feminine creates a Third Energy Force, which is both, yet neither - neutral and ALL-POWERFUL - because it does not oppose, but causes polarities to simultaneously blend and flow into each other.
Any banker or mathematics student can tell you that it "increases" the power of the number. Obviously, the sum of one dollar grows larger has more "power" as you "add the zeros. That's nice for all Scorpios to know - as long as they don't forget what causes the power.
The Serpent, eating its own tail - Eternity's Secret. An important building block to the comprehension of the Twelve Mysteries of Love, related to the secret of the circle, is the following. You'll come across the use of the term "co-Creators" many times in this book. To the skeptical, who find it difficult to image the "Old Testament God" with a Mate of His own, I offer this scholarly source, although the faithful and the spiritually wideawake need no proof, other than instinctive knowledge from within, regarding this or any concept of the truth of creation. The following quotation is from a painstaking translation of the Septuagint, the earliest known circa B.
The translation was published by the Falcon's Wing Press in , under the editorship of Dr. From Proverbs excerpts : For at the gates of the Mighty, She hath taken a seat, and at the entrance thereof chanteth Her song: I was the one in whom He delighted, and I was daily gladdened by His presence on all occasions. By such deception we have been deprived of a sublime and ennobling truth. But the unfolding of the Aquarian Age, foretold by all prophets of all religions, will bring the Light of the conscious restoration of the Golden Balance between the Feminine and Masculine energies on Earth.
This Golden Balance is the eventual blending of all Twin Souls. Its concept lies ready to burst forth within all yearning, searching hearts. And it begins with the recognition of the Male-Female truth hidden in the Holy Trinity and the symbol of Eternity - the Serpent eating its own tail - the secret "knowledge" given by the "Serpent" to Eve, who passed it on to Adam.
That this eating of the "forbidden fruit" of the "Tree of Knowledge" was later called "Original Sin" reveals the desperation of the dark forces to hide the Light of Truth by a polarity distortion, channeled through the ancient patriarchs who feared losing the masculine superiority principle through sexual equality. And the Aquarian Age sons of Adam will this time be enlightened to Eve's wisdom.
Not even the Church "Fathers" can stop the lightning of the predestined and foretold Uranian spiritual awakening of the New Age of Golden Balance. Perhaps Adam couldn't handle the truth. But today's Water Bearers can - and will. Under the powerful Uranus vibes and the Aquarian microscope, all deception will be exposed for the hypocrisy it is. And this shall be called "Original Innocence" - the beginning of Wisdom. When people all throughout the world enter into cooperation with these Divine principles of the Golden Balance of Male and Female, the New Age of Aquarius will finally manifest itself in all the splendor and magnificence of the reborn and wiser Atlantis.
Not all the chauvinists and atomic and nuclear energy madmen combined can stop the Uranian tidal waves of Truth. As man and woman evolve around the astrological karmic circle, absorbing the qualities of other Sun Signs into their own individualities - teaching some, learning from others - each has a spiritual obligation to retain the positive integrity of his or her own Sun Sign in this incarnation and also to respect that right in others. The Lion must have his dignity, as the Crab must cling to security. The Goat must honor tradition, as the Twins must demand their freedom.
Each must follow the Aquarian Age adage to "live and let live," to be yourself, and realize that others must be themselves too. The first step toward comprehending love's ultimate meaning - toward finally being permitted to enjoy its absolute fulfillment - is to learn to tolerate instead of condemning the Sun Sign qualities different from our own. In exploring the interrelationships of the twelve Sun Signs, through both their harmonious and their conflicting traits of character as they relate to our This journey is a kind of growing of the spirit, from soul-infancy through soul-adulthood, middle-age, "old age" and death, then rebirth.
The soul can be freed of this endless circle of birth and death only when we learn to free the physical or dense body, also, of death; a miracle I dare to predict will occur much sooner than we now believe. The "problem" such longevity would create, in relation to the general world population new births, along with the conquering of death - for centuries - etc.
But this is not the place to attempt to conceive of the possibilities. An in-depth discussion of such a future in the approaching "New Age" must wait for my next book. The soul's symbolic journey through the twelve Sun Signs may be comprehended by imaging man and woman undergoing, with their minds and bodies, a matching journey. First, the soul enters the initial phase, similar to earthly birth, then advances through various further stages similar to earthly life, gaining spiritual experience from each, just as we gain mental and physical experience from a similar type journey of our dense bodies.
The soul is "born'' in the sign of Aries, the symbolic Infant, as reflected through the Sun's magnetic alchemy. The Aries Love Mystery The soul, symbolically newborn in Aries although not necessarily in its first earthly sojourn , relates to dawn, sunrise, spring and Easter - or the resurrection from its "death" in the previous sign of Pisces.
In this first excursion into the Fire Element - this experience as the first of the three Cardinal signs - the symbolically "newborn" soul projects the positive, masculine vibration of the Day Forces through the explosive vitality of the Aries planetary ruler, Mars. Like a human infant totally self-absorbed, the Aries soul discovers with delight his or her own toes and fingers - its own physical beingness. To satisfy all needs, only a loud cry is necessary, heard and answered instantly by elders.
The real infant doubts or fears nothing or no one, simply because it has never experienced denial. Likewise, the Aries "Infant" soul has a natural trust and a touching faith in the unseen force of goodness which will miraculously grant all its wishes. On the Earth plane this beneficent force is represented by the parents; in a mystical sense, by our co-Creators. And so they look tenderly upon the "newborn" Aries soul, as parents look tenderly upon their infant, lovingly protecting it from its own naivete, wisely denying some of the demands made through the excited awareness that the soul is - he has been born, and is here.
He or she learns of these negative experiences only from those advanced beyond, who have gathered harshness, suspicion and the self-survival instinct from the growing process. There's a religious adage that all infants, since they die in a state of purity, immediately become angels. Of course! They have not yet met the devil of Temptation. But if the Aries "Infant" survives, he or she must, like the real infant, time and time again, undergo the sharp disappointment of misplaced trust. As the victim of unkindness, a lack of sympathy or abandonment, the newborn In the same manner and for the same reasons does the soul of the hurt and disillusioned Aries man or woman need and "seek acceptance, yet court rejection" with a violent emotional reaction to neglect.
The positive qualities of Aries are a heart-tugging innocence and wonder, blind faith and raw courage. Expressed in their negative forms, they can become selfish egotism, thoughtlessness, aggressiveness and impulsive action with no regard for the consequences. To the Aries soul, Love is a necessity of life, which is taken for granted; for in it's infancy of awareness, Love is synonymous with existence itself.
Therefore, devotion is instinctively expected and joyously accepted, but with little comprehension of how to return it. Aries demands Love, for like the infant, without Love, Aries dies. When emotional abandonment symbolically can mean death, even the hint of it can bring on unreasonable panic, and inexplicable terror, calmed only by repeated reassurances. Aries continually needs to be reminded that "if winter comes" the miracle of spring cannot be far behind. The Taurus Love Mystery The evolving spiritual awareness of man or woman enters next into the Earth element.
On the Taurus level, the symbolic Infant soul has become, symbolically, a healthy, chubby Baby, who now relates to the reflective feminine Night Forces, and has learned to sleep on schedule, then wake to anticipated comfort. No longer does he or she scream without reason, in fright or loneliness - or yell loudly for every need, as in the Arian stage. It has been discovered that all desires will be satisfied by the parents.
Like the human baby, in the Taurean stage, the soul is content to sit quietly and patiently in its symbolic high chair and wait for its daily bread with quiet, confident and sure anticipation. The Bull has also learned how to use good behavior to wheedle more pleasures, more favors from the "parents" and other adults. Smiles and obedience are rewarded, and Taurus doesn't forget what has been learned, however painfully and slowly. Still essentially unaware of anything outside the immediate environment, the Taurus man or woman like the Taurean symbolic Baby finds happiness in the family circle and the tangible - in what is known to be familiar, rather than in the strange and noisy outside world.
Through the Taurus experience, the Baby soul discovers the delight of using the senses of tasting, smelling, seeing, hearing and touching. It symbolically smells and chews, and listens to every toy, as well as looks at and touches them in this, the soul's first experience as a Fixed sign of the Organizer. Because possessions bring happiness, this man or woman clutches them, fondles them and finds contentment in calling them his or her own.
On the Taurus level of development, the "Baby soul" is enormously dependent on physical contact with loved ones - to be held, cuddled, kissed and hugged. And the Venus-ruled Pan-Horus guided Taurean responds with coos and giggles of ecsta- The actual baby is fiercely possessive of toys and the attention of the parents, shattered when either seems lost, stubbornly refusing to share them, as the male or female Taurean behaves with regard to his or her own bank account and mate.
Taurus positive qualities are strength of purpose, patience, steadfastness and conviction. Expressed in their negative form, they become obstinacy, blind prejudice and lack of reason.
To the jolly, dogmatic baby, symbolic of the Taurus soul, love is physical affection, both given and received without question. Because the baby associates love with all pleasure and happiness, he or she glories in it with an uncomplicated, animal-like appreciation. Therefore, Taurus accepts and returns love with the senses - but has not yet learned to analyze its true worth and value. For the first time, the soul arrives at the stage of the Mutable Communicator, becoming conscious of its own mentality, aware that it is not alone in the Universe.
The Child soul of Gemini learns to communicate needs by speaking, by learning to form words and string them together, while the parents and others listen attentively, rejoicing at each new sound.
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Talking is fun because it centers all the interest on him or her. There's a new ability to crawl or toddle over to the cookie jar, without either the Aries yelling or the Taurus waiting, and this new-found independence is intoxicating. The symbolic Child level of consciousness teaches the Gemini soul that there are two sides to the character - a duality or polarity that must be brought into harmony before one can successfully relate to others.
The first twinge of unhappiness pulls as he or she bumps hard into discipline, while trying to blend the sleeping and waking Twin Selves. Because Gemini suddenly longs for pleasures outside home and family, the Child soul is often punished for symbolically attempting to run out into dangers not yet suspected. Likewise, the world invites Gemini men and women to explore it, and who knows what they may find out there!
With the new mental ability to reason and deduce - to relate Gemini begins to wish for and to dream of things beyond what has already been seen. Half the Gemini soul is still an insecure baby, needing the familiar.
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Half is a yearning child, curious about the many undiscovered marvels just out of tangible reach. The Geminian soul has already experienced Fire and Earth and is learning to cope with the Air Element for the first time. And so this twinned personality experiments, with bright eyes and a hopeful heart. Each new day stirs Gemini's mind with its hidden magic, more enticing now than the discarded toys and the warm circle of parental affection. They seek cash for the lovely things it can buy. The Libra bird needs lots of fine feathers for her luxurious nest. She loves beautiful clothes, expensive perfumes, classical music and — did somebody say she was masculine?
Yes, I did. One side of her. But you will barely notice her hard head when it wears such pretty hair-dos. Mostly, Libran women need plentiful sums of money to remove them from the squalor and ugliness of discordant surroundings, which can actually make them emotionally and physically ill. Her man. She hates to play solitaire. Partnerships, in both business and romance, constitute her deepest need.
Libra women who visit astrologers have only two questions they really care about. Her nature is built for teamwork. You really have to give her credit. She simply wants to remove all the stones in his path. The average Libra female is highly intellectual and has amazing powers of analysis, which can be a real help in solving your business problems.
She seldom lets her emotions keep her from dispassionate decision or a balanced view, and she can usually give you better advice than your banker. Naturally, her abilities along these lines can cover a multitude of vices. An Aries, Scorpio, Leo or Taurus man will normally put his Libran wife on a pedestal and worship her. Outsiders who visit the love nest of a properly mated Libran and her husband may feel as though they were seeing Adam and Eve, before the snake came along and spoiled everything.
Two Librans wed to each other invariably become cooing lovebirds or snarling adversaries. Your home may look like one of those stylish interior magazines. The colors will harmonize, and the furniture will be in good taste. Pictures will hang straight, and meals will usually be served on time. With most Venus girls you can also count on cloth napkins, sterling silver, flowers on the table, good china, candlelight, wine, soft music and a balanced menu.
That dear, womanly little creature is composed of nine parts steel. Who really does it, that is. No one but you will know how much you need her helping hand at the helm when things get choppy. Women in trousers are all right, as long as they have enough sense to wear sequined dresses to parties and slinky silk in privacy. She does. One of her most valuable assets is her ability to hide her sharp, keen mind behind utter femininity. The children will be loved and tenderly cared for by a Libra mother, but in all honesty, they will come in a poor second to you.
The Libra mother is normally gentle, yet quite firm when the need arises. Her children are never neglected or ignored, but the truth of the matter is that the reason she wanted to become a mother in the first place was so she could give you more happiness that way. There is something about this relationship that involves spiritual life lessons. There's a compassion inherent between the individuals, and a patient understanding for the other partner's differences, which there will be many. A pattern describes a relationship between two signs that fall three or eleven spaces apart from one another on the zodiac wheel, respectively.
According to Goodman's book , combinations in this pattern include:. These combinations of signs will be fast friends, get along well with one another, although they'll likely be annoyed by one another and probably find themselves bickering a lot. That said, the trust and love between these individuals makes any argument easy to overcome, and the friendship that ties them together will be lasting, even if the romantic relationship ends.
A pattern describes a relationship between two signs that fall four or 10 spaces apart from one another on the zodiac wheel, respectively. This is tough one, kids. I mean if you've ever been in a relationship that was marked by a pattern, you probably noticed how difficult it is to get along.
There's just something about this person that irks you, or makes you want them to put a lid on their personality. Someone plays the disciplinarian in this relationship, and their efforts to change the other person eventually ruins it's chances for survival in a romantic sense.
A pattern describes a relationship between two signs that fall five or nine spaces apart from one another on the zodiac wheel, respectively. It also describes any relationship between two signs of the same element earth, water, air, or fire. The chances for a permanent, lasting relationship between these signs is more feasible than any other combination, simply because there is such a natural empathy for the other person's inherent qualities.
Disagreements and fights between these signs are useful, productive even, because no time is spent wasted trying to understand behavior that is drastically different between the individuals. The understanding is already there.